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Two Year Divorcesary

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It’s never what you want. Or how you picture your life. At least, I certainly didn’t. But I got to a point where I knew I was betraying myself by staying in a marriage that was really bad for me. It’s no one’s fault. People grow and change. I wanted so badly to keep my family together—I tried everything I could think of.  • In the end, it just wasn’t meant to be. I was incredibly unhappy and it showed in all areas of my life. • Today marks two years to the day that I was officially divorced. 2.5 since we separated. As hard and gut wrenching as it has been at times, I’ve finally found myself. I was always there, but I was drowning in everyone’s expectations and beliefs about me. Now, I live better and happier. I am present and right h.e.r.e because I choose to be, not because I’m being forced, guilted or shamed into it.  • Divorce isn’t something you’re supposed to show off, or brag about. But as one of the biggest hurdles I’ve faced in my life, I am overcome with relief and jo...